230 Spicy Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend

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Are you dating your boyfriend for quite some time, or have you just started dating?

Whatever stage your relationship is in, there is no ending to learning more about your boyfriend, right? After all, this is that one person you want to be with for the rest of your life, so you got to know him better.

You know, I dated my husband for years before we got married five years back – starting from my college days – and today, sometimes, I feel like there are still some things that I don’t know about him!

So, girl, don’t be shy in asking your boyfriend whatever questions come to your mind. You need to know him – the more, the better.

And did I tell you that asking questions to your boyfriend can actually make things hotter for your relationship?

Of course, it depends on what kind of questions you are asking.

In my dating days – which were for years –  there were a lot of possibilities for things to not go according to what we planned for us. And sometimes, it could be boring too.

You know, after a long period of time together, you start thinking that there is nothing new to know about your partner, and that is exactly when you start taking your partner for granted.

But, in our case, we didn’t let that happen. Instead, both of us would always come up with something new that would keep our relationship interesting. And one such thing is asking each other sensual questions.

Can’t come up with flirty questions? I’m here to help!

I have listed the best spicy questions to ask your boyfriend in this post. Of course, you can modify them according to the kind of relationship you are in.

So, what are you waiting for? Read on.

Exciting Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend

Exciting Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend

It’s time to send your shyness to the backseat and bring your bold self to the front seat. Ask these exciting questions to your boyfriend and see how it brings life to your relationship!

Dirty Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend

Dirty Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend (1)

If I talk about most guys, well, they love talking dirty and doing dirty things to their partners. So, how about taking the lead and surprising your boyfriend with these dirty questions?

Trust me. He will love to see this new side of yours!

  • If I tell you that I’m not wearing any underwear at the moment, what would you do?
  • How do you feel when I am a bad girl with you?
  • What do you think about me when I’m away from you?
  • How many rounds can you go in one night? What are your plans for our wedding night?
  • When other guys check me out, how do you feel? Do you get jealous?
  • Suppose you are masturbating, and I caught you in the act. What would you do? Would you finish or stop?
  • How good of a kisser I am, according to you?
  • Do you get turned on when I whisper dirty things in your ears?
  • Do you have had a sex dream about me, and then you found yourself cum in your sleep?
  • How about you record a video of yourself masturbating and then send it to me?
  • I want to see you naked right now. Can you come over?
  • If I ask you to describe my body using four words, what would you say?
  • Will you allow me to watch you when you play with yourself?
  • If I ask you what is the least attractive body part of mine, according to you, what would you say?
  • What is that one position that we have not tried yet, but you want to in the future?
  • Do you get hard when I make the first move during sex?
  • Do you look at me from the back when I leave?
  • We started dating recently, right? But before that, did you ever dream about me or fantasize about me?
  • Would you like to have sex with me when I’m having my periods?
  • Do you find it gross to have sex during my periods?
  • What color panty suits me the best, according to you?
  • What color bra suits me the best, according to you?
  • What is that one kind of lingerie that you want to see me in?
  • Do you want to tear my clothes off and have rough sex with me?
  • What is the one sex position that you like to perform the most with me?
  • Do you like it when I’m on top of you?
  • Do you prefer me to be on top or bottom?
  • Do you get turned on when I send naughty pictures of myself?
  • Is there any individual memory that you have of us in bed that you like the most?
  • Do you like it when I’m the dominant and you the submissive?
  • Would you like to explore BDSM more, or do you not quite like it?
  • Do you want me to give you more oral, or do you want to do me more?
  • Is there anything that you want me to try on you?
  • Do you fantasize about me when I’m not with you?
  • Do you want to have sex with me all the time – day and night?

Spicy Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend

Spicy Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend (2)

Yes, we do need some spice in our relationships. Agree?

After all, we like to keep things interesting all the time! So ask these spicy questions to your boyfriend and see how his eyes light up.

  • Suppose I ask you to bind. What would you do? Would you tie me up or blindfold me?
  • What makes a woman sexy, according to you?
  • Do you think I’m sexy? Rate me on a scale of one to ten.
  • Can you imagine me serving you breakfast wearing just an apron and nothing else? How would you feel then? Want to know yourself? How about you come to my house, and I will show you?
  • I just took a shower and haven’t worn anything yet. Can you come over? I would love your hands on my wet body
  • Want me to send you a picture of mine? What pose would you prefer? I’m all in
  • I love your tongue. I love how it can excite me. What to see yourself? Come to my house, now.
  • I love the new lingerie that you gifted me. Want to see how it looks on me? Come tonight
  • Did I ever tell you how wonderful your fingers are? Every time they are on, and inside me, they never fail to amaze me
  • Have you ever wanted to rip my clothes off using your teeth and then indulge in passionate lovemaking?
  • What if we were together in bed now? Would you like to start from the lower part of my body or the upper part of my body?
  • If we were together right now and you wanted to kiss me, which part of my body would it be?
  • I can’t help thinking about you at night, and it leads me to touch myself. Do you want to see it?
  • Do you want to do dirty things to me? Where do you want to start from? And what exactly would you do? Can you give me a little preview now?
  • I’m in the shower right now, naked. Would you like to come and join me?
  • When did you have your first kiss? Was it bad, or was it great? Describe
  • I would like to know how exactly you feel when I kiss you?
  • I want you to do dirty things to me. Can you come over?
  • I miss your touch on my body. Can you come over?
  • I forget how it feels to kiss you. Can you remind me now?
  • Have you ever taken a full body massage? Would it be better if I was the one to perform it on you?
  • How frequently do you want us to have sex?
  • If I ask you to take a nude picture with me, would you take it?
  • Can you show me how you love yourself? A video clip would be great
  • When I give you sensual full-body massages, does it turn you on?
  • Does the thought of me on you turn you on?
  • I love your shirtless hot body. Can you send me a selfie?
  • I’m cold. Can you come over and give me your body heat?
  • Do you check me out often when I turn to leave?
  • What do you like to wear when you go to bed? I like to wear nothing
  • What is the craziest fantasy that you want to make a reality with me?

Naughty Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend

Naughty Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend (1)

Having a girlfriend who is naughty in bed is every man’s dream! So, how about gifting your boyfriend something that he would love?

These spicy questions to ask your boyfriend can be your savior!

  • Do you know what I want in the bedroom and how I want you to do it?
  • Is it okay according to you to fantasize about other women when you are already in a steady relationship?
  • What, according to you, is the perfect definition of a perfectly romantic date?
  • Would you like it if I took the lead in the bedroom?
  • What physical features of mine attract you more?
  • Do you think you are practical or romantic?
  • Am I someone you would love to come home to?
  • Would you like to see me open the door for you wearing your favorite lingerie?
  • Would you like to join me in the shower when I ask you to?
  • Which sports, according to you, is sexy?
  • Would you like to see me touch myself?
  • Would you like to use sex toys on me?
  • Would you like to tie me up and have sex with me?
  • Do you want to kiss me hard and make me cum?
  • How would you feel if we both cum together?
  • What kind of sex do you like more: vaginal or oral?
  • I like it rough. Do you like it that way too?
  • I love it when you pull my hair and kiss me hard. I miss you. Can you come over?
  • What is the sexiest kind of lingerie, according to you?
  • Would you like to dress me up for tonight and then rip them off my body later?
  • What is the one sex toy that you want to use on me the most?
  • Is there any sex toy that you want to try someday?
  • Do you fantasize about me often? What do you fantasize about? Can you tell me?
  • Have you ever confessed your feelings for someone during sex?
  • Is there any place where you dream of doing it with me?
  • Do you get goosebumps when I say that I love you?

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Weird Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend

Weird Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend

It’s okay to be weird in a relationship. After all, we all look for excitement when after a time, things start to become boring. And when you behave weird, it somehow gives your relationship that much-needed dose of excitement.

Start by asking these weird questions to your boyfriend. He will be amazed to see this new side of yours!

  • Have you ever read about a sex position somewhere and then tried practicing it using a pillow?
  • Have you ever practiced kissing in the mirror?
  • Is there anything that disgusts you and that you don’t ever want to try in bed?
  • How many places have you done it in? What is the most uncomfortable of them all?
  • Have you ever ghosted someone after having sex?
  • Has someone ever ghosted you after having sex?
  • Have you ever followed someone to her home?
  • What are your thoughts on food sex? Do you want to try it? Or, have you ever tried it?
  • Does the idea of chocolate syrup all over my naked body excite you? Would you lick it off if you were there with me?
  • May I know your size? Have you ever felt insecure about it?
  • What, according to you, is the weirdest body part to lick someone off from?
  • Which body part of mine would you lick happily?
  • Have you ever tried a threesome? If not, are you interested?
  • What is the weirdest sexual experience that you have had?
  • Have you had sex with someone one night and regretted it the next morning?
  • Do you think I’m great at sex? Do I satisfy you?
  • Is there anything that you want to try with me in the bedroom?
  • Do you want to try BDSM with me? Are you open to it?
  • What role would you prefer – the role of a dominant or the role of a submissive?
  • Would you punish me if I don’t behave properly in bed? What would you do to me?
  • I have been naughty the entire day. Do you want to punish me?
  • Do you like me to call you names while doing it?
  • Is it okay with you if I laugh during sex?
  • What is the most erotic thing you have tried in the bedroom to date?
  • Have you ever been in love with two people at the same time?
  • Have you ever accidentally opened the room of someone’s bedroom and caught them doing it?
  • Have you caught anyone while they were masturbating?
  • Has anyone caught you while you were playing with yourself?
  • Do you like to please me, or do you like me to please you more?
  • What kind of animal are you on the bed?
  • What kind of animal do you think I am in bed?
  • Do you want to lick me there and see how I taste?
  • Do you like to start with some foreplay and then have sex slowly to arouse your partner?
  • If I accidentally pour alcohol on your pants, would you like me to clean them? How?
  • How often do you watch porn?
  • Do you masturbate while watching porn?
  • Have you ever had sex with a woman who is double your age?
  • Has any woman abused you sexually?
  • If you are masturbating and suddenly realize that someone is watching you, would you stop right there, or would you continue till you cum?
  • If I have alcohol in my mouth, would you like to drink it from my mouth?
  • What is the weirdest place where you want to make out with me?
  • What is the kinkiest fantasy that you have about me?
  • Do you have fetishes? What is the kinkiest of them all?
  • What is the kinkiest thing I can do to make you hard instantly?
  • I miss your hands on my boobs. Can you come over?
  • Where, according to you, is it gross to have sex?

Funny Spicy Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend

Funny Spicy Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend

Do you remember the saying, “marry someone who can make you laugh?

So, you can understand how important it is to be funny and make your partner laugh. These spicy questions to ask your boyfriend are funny and are perfect for bringing back the lost humor in your relationship!

  • Have you ever made a funny face while having sex?
  • Do you want to make me laugh while we are doing it?
  • What is the most embarrassing memory that you have of kissing someone?
  • Can I borrow a kiss from you? I will give it back with interest. I promise
  • Has anyone mistaken me for your sister because of our height difference?
  • In how less time can you get naked? Are two minutes enough? Let’s see
  • Have you ever seen a sex position in a magazine and tried to copy it? And then failed miserably and ended up laughing? Which position was it? Can you describe it?
  • What would you prefer more: people watching you having sex or you watching a couple having sex?
  • What is the hardest position that you have ever tried?
  • Is your name sun? Because I feel hot when you are around
  • What is your name? Is it Wi-Fi? Because I feel like I’m connected to you
  • What is your favorite number? Mine is 69
  • Have you ever farted accidentally while having sex and ended up laughing?
  • What is the tiniest place you have had sex in?
  • Do you want to have sex with me in the backseat of your car?
  • Is your name Hulk? Because you smash me hard
  • What is the funniest fantasy you have?
  • Would you like to lick melted chocolate from my butt?
  • What is the funniest sex dream you have ever had?
  • Can you remove my panties using just your teeth?
  • Have you ever tried sexting but failed miserably?
  • Have you ever kissed the wrong person because of darkness?
  • Have you ever mistakenly sent nudes to someone you would otherwise never?
  • Are you Google? Because you are everything I have ever searched for
  • Is your name camera? Because every time I look at you, I smile
  • Have you ever had sex so loud that it woke your neighbors up?
  • I want a full body massage from you? From where would you like to start?
  • What is the kinkiest pickup line you have ever used?
  • Do you think you have some good chances of becoming a porn star?
  • How much would you rate yourself for your sex skills on a scale of one to ten?

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Freaky Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend

Freaky Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend

Now, these questions are not directly sexual. But these can give you and your boyfriend a good laughing session!

  • If you could give one superpower to your bunny, what would it be?
  • Have you ever peed in the shower? When was it?
  • Have you ever peed in the swimming pool? When was it?
  • What is that one movie that you have seen in the theatre that turned out to be the worst one ever?
  • Which of these actors do you find similarities with: Ron Swanson, Michael Scott, or Andy Dwyer?
  • Have you ever watched some meaningless show on the TV just because you were super bored? What was the name of that show?
  • Have you watched the Green Lantern? How was it?
  • Suppose you could eat only one thing for the rest of your life. What would the food be?
  • Do you like trying new things in bed too?
  • Suppose unicorns were a reality and got to keep one. What name would you give him?
  • What exactly are your feelings when you do something that you shouldn’t have or eat something that you shouldn’t have?
  • What is the biggest nightmare that you have?
  • What would you do if your biggest nightmare became a reality?
  • What are your views on skinny dipping?
  • Which animal sound can you make the best?
  • Have you ever complimented yourself while looking in the mirror?
  • Which, according to you, is grosser: yellow fingernails or yellow teeth?
  • Have you ever walked in heels? If not, do you want to experience it?
  • Have you ever cross-dressed?

Spicy Relationship Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend

Spicy Relationship Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend

It’s time to raise the temperature in the bedroom! Make use of these spicy questions to ask your boyfriend, and your boyfriend will crave you more.

  • Do you think we have enough sex? Or do we need to do it more often?
  • How many times have I appeared in your fantasies?
  • What do you think about our fights?
  • Do you like patch-up sex?
  • What is the one thing that you like the most about me in bed?
  • Do you think I’m good enough in bed?
  • Do you want me to be more on the silent side in bed, or do you like the way I scream?
  • What is the best thing that you have ever done on a date?
  • Has it ever happened to you that on your first date, you went straight from the restaurant to your bedroom?
  • What is the weirdest thing that makes you happy in a relationship?
  • Are you a jealous boyfriend, or are you cool with me having other male friends?
  • Do you believe that we met because of our destiny?
  • How do you like to flirt? Is there any particular style that you follow?
  • How much of a special place do I have in your heart and mind?
  • Do you think I’m yours forever and ever?
  • What do you fear the most in a relationship?
  • If I ask you to use only three words to describe our relationship, what would that be?
  • When we started dating, did you think that we would come this far?
  • Have you noticed how many birthmarks I have in my entire body and where? If not, would you like to find it?
  • Do you like me to call you some cute names when we are together?
  • Which physical aspects of my body attract you the most?
  • Do you want to have me with you all the time?
  • Is there anything that you desperately want to ask me but holding back?
  • What is the one thing that you love about our relationship the most?
  • If we go to your favorite place, how would you like to spend time with me?
  • Suppose I had to move to a different city for my work or any other reason. Will you still be in a relationship with me? Or will you want us to be in our own separate ways as you don’t want to continue long-distance?
  • What is your favorite sound?
  • What if we are alone with each other and it rains heavily? What would you do?
  • Do you want us to try something together that we haven’t tried yet?
  • Do you like my scent?
  • Are you happy with our relationship?
  • What is that one song that reminds you of us?
  • What kind of dress looks the sexiest on me, according to you?
  • What is your favorite kind of song?
  • What is one difference between that that you actually love?

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Flirty Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend

Flirty Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend

Yes, you do need to flirt sometimes. So what if he is your boyfriend?

Flirting the right way can make things more romantic for your two love birds!

  • Is it possible for a person to fall for the same person again and again? Because whenever I see you, I think I have fallen for you all over again
  • Do you even realize how happy you make it just by being with me?
  • That smile of yours – how could someone look so freakingly sexy while smiling?
  • Do you know what I like the most about us? You!
  • Will our future be like this – where we are always smiling and happy as we are now?
  • Do you like to see me with you for the rest of your life?
  • Is it even possible to think of a future where there is no “you?”


Do you think that your relationship is getting boring and that it lacks excitement?

These spicy questions to ask your boyfriend can bring back the spark in your relationship. So ask these your partner, and don’t forget to let us know his reaction!

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