Are you crushing on someone?
Well, it can be a little frustrating if you have been crushing over a guy for ages, and he hasn’t noticed yet.
Guys are not very complex. They are simple, and you don’t have to do much to attract them to you. However, you may not always like to make the first move.
So, girl, let him make the first move and come to you. Just don’t play too hard to get. Otherwise, they may find someone else, and you will be left single. But that doesn’t mean that I’m asking you to be desperate.
How to get boys to like you? Give him some time, be your best version, and you will be able to get the guy’s attention.
Other than that, there are some simple ways you can try to make your crush fall for you – without even talking to him.
When I was in school, I had a crush on one of my classmates. But I was too shy to go and talk to him. So, what I did was never give him that much attention or never show that I was interested in him.
Instead, whenever he was close to me, talking to someone, I used to walk away. This made him curious about me, and then, after a year, he expressed his feelings for me.
I don’t know how it worked for me. But, seriously, I would never ask you to do the same, as doing this can give the guy the signal that you are not at all interested in him. And you don’t want that, right?
Tips on How to Get Boys to Like You
Here I have shared some tips on how to get the guy you like, like you back. So give them a try and see what works for you.
So, what are they?
Come, let’s find out!
1. Show Him Your Bright Smile
Did you know what catches a guy’s attention in the first place?
A warm, beautiful, and friendly smile! So, don’t look away if you notice him looking at you or if your eyes meet for some reason. Instead, show him your pearly whites.
By that, I’m not asking you to grin as broad as you can. Just a sweet little smile is all I’m asking for. And if you want to make things a bit more interesting, you can give him a mysterious smile. This will make him curious about you.
You know, when you smile, it makes you a lot more approachable. This will make the guy come and talk to you. Now, isn’t that something you want?
2. Dress Properly
What do you notice when you look at someone for the first time?
Their dressing style, right? And that is exactly what most guys notice too.
So, if you want to make a guy notice you, dress up pretty. Wear something that makes you look good and, of course, confident.
Remember, don’t go out of your comfort zone just to make a guy fall for you. Confidence is the best thing you can wear. If you are uncomfortable wearing something, it will show on your face, and things may not work the way you want.
Why not try a comfy dress in red? The color red has the power to make you look more appealing than ever. And did I tell you that it makes you look sexy too?
3. Give All the Love You Can to Yourself
Yes, now, this is very important. If you want someone to love you, you must love yourself first. When you are happy with yourself, it will give your confidence level a huge boost.
So, girl, don’t just sit in the corner texting someone about how you wish your crush come and talk to you. Talk to other people, make friends and be a happy soul.
When you are content with your life, it will reflect positivity too. And who knows, this quality of yours may attract the guy you want to be with. He may find you interesting, be curious about you and come and talk to you. After all, who can ignore the charm of a bold, confident, and beautiful woman!
4. Don’t Ever Look Desperate for the Attention of the Guy
Yes, I know you are dying to talk to him. But, dear, don’t make it obvious for him to understand that you are totally into him.
When you like someone, you tend to behave in such a way that the person gets to know that you are interested in him. But, this should not be the case.
If you are in public and your eyes meet, exchanging smiles is perfectly fine. You can even look at him every now and then and then look away. But don’t stare at him for minutes because if he notices this, he may find it creepy. And instead of being attracted to you, he may go away. You don’t want that, right?
Just take your time and trust me, he will, eventually, notice you. After all, guys are visual creatures, and he will never miss noticing a girl that he finds interesting.
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5. Be Fun Loving
Wouldn’t you want to be with someone who is fun-loving? The same is the case with the guy you like.
If you are a girl who lives in the moment, enjoys life as it comes, and has a blast all the time, you are likely to draw a lot of crowds to yourself. When you live your life as if you are having a party all the time, your guy will never fail to notice you.
By that, I’m not asking you to pretend to have a fun life. Be the real you. After all, you don’t want to start something good by being dishonest, right?
Just be happy with the life you have. This will drive your guy towards you, as he will also want to know what you do to have a happy life and how he can be happy in life, too.
So, go out, live your life and make your guy come to you. Don’t sit alone waiting for someone to come and talk to you while you are busy scrolling on Facebook. After all, no one wants to be with a boring and moody person, right?
6. Be Friendly and Approachable
We all fear rejection, don’t we? And the guy you like is no exception to it.
So, it would be better if you could send him a vibe that you are approachable and friendly. You are not someone who gets angry all the time and is moody.
And for this to happen, you need to show him your confident, happy side. Don’t fidget, slouch or use social media when he is around you. Because if you do, it will give him the signal that you are not at all interested in him, and he will go away from you.
So, if you want to make a guy make the first move, be approachable and have a positive aura. And this will work for sure!
7. Bump into Him
When you ask how to get boys to like you, I say, show him that you have some common interests. You can run into him from time to time. But, please, don’t make it too obvious. Otherwise, he might get the idea that you are stalking him.
When he sees you at the same places almost every day, he will start thinking that you two have common interests. And did I tell you that it is one of the easiest ways to get a guy’s attention?
Also, he may even end up asking you out!
Just remember, don’t make yourself too available. Otherwise, he may think that you have nothing better to do in life than to stalk him. And you don’t want that, right?
Make him know that he is not the only thing you are interested in. There are so many other important things in your life.
And when he gets a glimpse of your independent and content life, it will make him come close to you and make the first move!
8. Add Him to Your Social Media Channels
Does the guy you like is in your friend list?
If not, then it’s time that you add him now. But for this, you will have to have a mutual friend. And if you already have one, then the task of getting him to notice you will become half the easier!
Keep a check on your friend’s Facebook feed. If you see that your friend has tagged your crush in something, make sure to comment on it – a short casual one so that it doesn’t creep him out.
Also, you need to let your friend know that you have a crush on this guy so that they can suggest him to you as a friend. You can even ask your mutual friend to tag you in their posts.
Doing so will make your guy notice you no matter what, and you will be friends with him in no time!
9. Keep Yourself Busy
I know you are trying hard to get this guy’s attention. But that doesn’t mean that is the only thing you are doing in your life right now.
Always give importance to what you like to do and, of course, your career. Guys have a different level of affection for girls who are busy bees, and when they have one such girl in their life, they treasure them. So, if you are busy, your guy will adore you for that. And it will be a bit easier for you to get his attention.
Of course, if he is near you, you can look at him from time to time, but don’t make it obvious. It should look like casual eye contact. Now, if you notice that he is looking at you when you are looking away, know that he is already interested in you. And it is only about a few days that he is going to come and talk to you.
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So, read all the points I have discussed if you want to know how to get boys to like you without talking to them. Try them, and you won’t be disappointed. Trust me.
Let me know in the comments if they worked for you!