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Paid Reviews: Why Our Mom Influencers are Paid to Review Products

Friday, April 16th, 2010 by Michelle

EDIT:

We listened to the community.  We are NO LONGER PAYING FOR REVIEWS.  Please see this post for more info >>

Post continues…

This post has been rolling around in my head since we stared our review section at EverythingMom.  I don’t blog often, writing kinda freaks me out a little.

So when the time came that I needed to write this somewhat controversial post, I stalled.  I read the debates around the blogosphere about paid reviews.  Some said paid reviews compromised integrity and others said they did not want to read paid reviews because they did not believe them.  Some bloggers have stopped doing reviews all together because it is too much work.

The general consensus, it seems, is that paid reviews are a big no-no.  Yet here we are, going completely against the grain.  Sure there are sites out there that offer paid reviews.  But generally, when moms jump into the conversation, they say with gumption - no.  No paid reviews for me.

I took each position in, weighing it’s merits, seeing how EverythingMom might fit in to this arena.  We were already playing in it full out with our very own Reviews section.  And we stood by the same position — no paid reviews.  To this day, Carrie Anne has not been compensated (outside of product) for reviews.  But I am out to change that.

Carrie Anne has put her heart, soul and honesty into each and every review.  She shares the good, and the not so good, if applicable.  If she felt the product was not a fit at all for our readers, she did not review it.  (Why waste anyone’s time, including our readers?)  We wanted (and still want) to share what works with our community, not what doesn’t. We are not here to “brand bash” as Christine Young’s husband Rob says.

Carrie Anne is spending more than she is earning.  In time and energy.  Not to mention taxes!  All products bloggers keep for review purposes are to be claimed on taxes.  So it actually costs Carrie Anne money to review the product.

For me, that does not cut it anymore.  I place far more value on her, the brands and our readers.  And I believe you should too.

Let me explain…

I hear all arguments (and there is a lot) and agree with them, for the most part.  But this was a hard one for me to play with.  Generally these are my thoughts –

  • Bloggers should be able to write about what they love, with their readers in mind.
  • Bloggers opinions should not be bought, but their time should.

Let’s talk about the bloggers.
For this program, we are talking about situations where PR companies contact bloggers for reviews.  We are not talking about situations where you found this product you love and you just want to shout it out to the world.  Share, write, do what you want to do.  But when PR companies reach out to you directly, send you a product for review, want your time and your opinion, that is what this conversation is about.

That is what happens here at EM all the time.   Carrie Anne spends stacks of time pumping out quality, honest reviews for both the reader and the brand.  For free, outside of product.  Is Carrie Anne’s time not worth anything but a free product?  How about your time?  There was even a big hubalub about a PR Blackout, that moms were getting overwhelmed with product reviews.  Choosing product review opportunities that work for the blogger would not lead to burn-out IMO.

Let’s talk about the brand.
The value they receive in a review is worth its weight in gold.  They are able to put their product in front of a mom who cares enough to take time out to write about it.  To share it with her community.  To have a conversation about it with her friends, her followers and her readers.  The feedback from one mother is valuable enough, but to spread her thoughts to her network?  Ask for their feedback?  Word of mouth marketing at its best.

The benefits go beyond the blogger’s network into search.  Many moms search for product reviews prior to purchase, so in this way, the value is extended in both time and reach. Brands know this.

Let’s talk about the review facilitators.
You know that there are many companies out there who are facilitating reviews.  “Sign up to be a product tester!  Share your opinions!”  But the facilitating company keeps all the money.  They get paid and — you, as the one who posts the reviews, tell the brands what they want to hear (good or bad) — don’t.  They get paid for facilitating.  Which they should…  But so should you.  Everyone should win.  Everyone should be paid for the time if their time is requested.

I have noodled this for a long time.  How can we ensure value to everyone when it comes to reviews?  How can we facilitate a program with both value and integrity for the blogger, the brand and the reader?

I have tried to find a solution that meets everyone’s needs.  Here is what I have come up with.  The goals we hope to achieve with this program are:

For Brands

  • Put your product in the hands of moms who want to offer their honest feedback about your product (you are not buying their opinion, you are buying their time)
  • If moms like your product, they will want to spread the word to their on and offline networks.
  • If they don’t, they will tell you why.  Directly.  Honestly.  Tell you how they think it could be improved to be a fit within their family.
  • It’s like your own private focus group offering honest opinions without bias.

For Bloggers

  • Get the inside scoop on products that enhance the lives of your family.
  • Enjoy receiving products to incorporate into your family’s lifestyle.
  • Get compensated for your time to review the product and share your honest opinion whether you post or not.
  • That means you blog with true integrity.  You don’t feel you need to post good things about it just because you received the product for free or because you got paid.
  • You can connect with brands on a deeper level.  Truly share what is important to you in a product.  You can share you inner most thoughts about the product with the brand directly, with kindness.  Influence how products are made and marketed.  Brands want to hear your honest feedback.  Here’s your chance.
  • If you love the product, you can post and share with your network.
  • If you don’t, you have the opportunity to have a one-on-one conversation with the makers to tell them why.

For Readers

  • Read reviews that are written with the deepest sense of integrity.
  • That means, you know if you are reading an EverythingMom review, it was posted because she truly loves the product, not because she felt she had to post it because she received a free product.  (She gets paid whether she likes it or not with no pressure to say so otherwise.)
  • You know that our Mom Infuencers are working with brands, one-on-one to help them make products better for everyone. Win-win.
  • Each EverythingMom review has a clear disclaimer linking to our review policies — that it was a paid review and why that’s a good thing.

As with everything, this is a work in progress.  We are navigating our way through this new territory, just like you.  But we believe in value.  We value our writers, our readers, our bloggers and our brands.

And we value your opinion.  What do you think about paid reviews?  Do you think this program will help build integrity and value into reviews for everyone involved?

Learn to Run: 5K in 30 Minutes

Friday, November 27th, 2009 by Michelle

istock_000008536608xsmallWell, that’s my goal.  There.  I said it out loud.  I want to learn to run 5k in 30 minutes.  Soon.  I am almost there!

I am looking for others who want to learn to run just as bad as I do.  It doesn’t matter to me whether you have already started training, of if you are still sitting on the couch thinking about it.  If you want to learn to run, I’d love for you to join me in my goal:  5k in 30 minutes.  Maybe for you, it is 5k in 20 mins or 3k in 30 mins - or heck - maybe you just want to go for a walk!  Timing / distance is very individual.  My goal just happens to be 5k in 30 minutes.  On the treadmill.  Learning to run we can all do together no matter what the numbers say; on the treadmill, track or trail.

I have been practicing since September.  Slowly working myself up.  My best time was 4.1K in 25 mins.  But I had to stop before I thought I was going to fall off / puke / pass out.  My typical run right now is 3k in 20 mins. Then I just start walking.  I have yet to keep running for that full-30-mins.

Here is what has helped me learn to run so far:

  1. Get some good tunes.
    I’ll write a post soon sharing my play list.  If you have a good one, please leave a link to it in the comments.
  2. Get naked.
    Well, almost.  Leave your pants at home.  Run in shorts.  The last thing you want to do is get more overheated than you already are.  For shirts - as little material as possible.  Tanks like these are great and Joe Fresh has ones just like it for super cheap.  Although they probably don’t breathe as well, they work just fine for me.  I cannot bring myself to run in the sports bras that I see at the gym.  But that’s just me.  At home on my treadmill, no problem.  But me/public/bras don’t go over so well.  If that’s your thing - good on ya.  The less the better, ’cause there’s a lot of sweat.
  3. Breathe.
    Obvious, yes, but do it on purpose.  When you think you can’t breathe anymore, start counting.  Slowly.  In - out.  In-2-3, Out-2-3.
  4. Don’t think.
    For me, I breathe way better when I stop my thoughts.  Or let them go.  If I simply concentrate on my breathing, watch the numbers, mentally sing my songs, I do much better.  It’s my version of meditating.  As soon as I get in to my to-do list, I’m off my beat, my breathing gets shorter, I get dizzy and I wonder WTH I am doing with this running thing in the first place.
  5. Believe in yourself.
    Stop with the I-Can’t stuff.  If you are able bodied then —   Yes.  You.  Can.  Shut off the negativity, turn on just a tiny bit of belief and try.  Just try, bit by bit.
  6. Break it down.
    Find what works for you.  Do you like to go minute by minute, song by song, km by km?  I go lap by lap.  I silently high five myself each lap that goes by.  I coach myself to say that OF COURSE I can make it one more lap.  C’mon, just one more lap, you can do it!  And then another, and then another, breathe, another and so on…
  7. Do it for yourself.
    If you are at the gym trying to run faster, further that the dude next to you, get off and go home.  This is about you, this is FOR you.  You are not running for the dude next to you.  You are running to give yourself and your family a healthy, happy YOU.  Forget about what or how anyone else is doing and concentrate on doing your best.
  8. Do it for your children.
    Modeling health for my children is important to me.  Exercising and feeding our bodies help us to be healthy and happy.  Practice what you preach.  (I need to get better in this in other areas, but that is another post…)
  9. Time it.
    Do NOT go running when you just ate, had a beer or have to go #2 but for the life of you can’t.  Just sayin’…

So those are my tips, what has worked for me, how I am learning to run.  I’d love to hear your tips.  How did / are you going to try to learn to run?  Will you join me?

Everything Food: 5 Mouth Watering Food Blogs

Friday, June 26th, 2009 by Michelle

This is a guest post by Vanessa Parrish of A Military Wife’s Mayhem

What’s for dinner? The typical everyday question. The question you dread to answer because someone isn’t going to like what you are going to make, or if you are like me, can’t come up with something different… that everyone will eat.

So I’m bringing you the 5 Food Blogs I look at on a daily basis for ideas and creative ways to get the pickiest eater to enjoy a healthy meal, and of course, feed out sweet tooth.

  1. Bakerella
    http://bakerella.blogspot.com

    I love this blog mainly because of my sweet tooth. The photos are so clear and instructions are easy to follow that even I can make these amazing treats! She even shows you how to decorate and package the treats.  No one will believe you made them!  She’s also on Twitter: @bakerella

  2. Fab Frugal Food
    http://www.fabfrugalfood.com

    Even though this site is a food site. It also has a great story behind it. The site is run my by a birth mother/ daughter team who were reunited in 1999. Donna Kelly and her daughter Anne Tegtmeier are the co-authors of 101 Things to do With Tofu and Donna Kelly has written several other books.

    This site has been a saviour for many times I’ve looked in my fridge and said ” I don’t know what to make for dinner!”  This site is easy to follow with every from appetizers to a gluten free recipes.  The healthy recipes wonderful for those who can only do so many chicken salads!

    Tweet them: @FabFrugalFood_A

  3. Super Healthy Kids
    http://www.superhealthykids.com

    With childhood obesity and diabetes on every parents mind, Super Healthy Kids is a great blog to get ideas on how to encourage kids to eat healthy but not banning the “bad foods”.  You don’t have to go completely healthy right away.  She gives tips and advice to make small changes in your food choices.  You’ll also find a section for toddlers.  Get them while they are too young to know any different!

    Bonus: She also has a blog, which is her everyday eating blog to help anyone wanting to lose weight!  Find her on Twitter @Healthykids

  4. Recipe Girl
    http://www.recipegirl.com

    This blog is so much fun! If you are the entertaining kind of gal, this is the site for you.  The photos are amazing.  This is the site to go if you want your guests to talk about your party for weeks after!

    There are even instructions on herbs and spice, how to zest a lemon, how to store certain items in your house and use them to make your meals amazing.   And for those who are on Weight Watchers there are recipes for you with the points calculated in there for you.

  5. Pink Sugar Desserts
    http://www.pinksugardesserts.com

    Do you love to bake?  I do, but it never comes out looking like it should after they come out of the oven.  If you want to make a special cake for your kids birthday party or one up that perfect mom at the next PTA meeting, Pink Sugar Desserts has you covered.

    She offers step by step instructions to making the things you see professional cake decorators do. Video posts, photos and and fun personality make baking fun!

Happy Eating!!

Photo credit:  Rosa Pomar

Always never the same

Sunday, June 14th, 2009 by Michelle

Credit:  http://www.flickr.com/photos/10533549@N08/3353909126/

Credit: http://www.flickr.com/photos/10533549@N08/3353909126/

I have been around the web world for about 4 years now.  I have seen my fair share of moms competing with each other on many different levels.  Working vs staying at home “mommy wars“, mom bloggers feeling their way around the “getting paid for reviews or not” conversation, which blog themes to use, or not, who has more traffic and why — and on, and on it goes.

So when I see this, is does not surprise me.

Trisha, from the fantastic site MomDot, wrote a post about how frustrated she has become.  And I hear her.  Gals like her and I work our tails off.  The amount of work it takes to pull of sites like ours is pretty crazy.  But we do it, for very little financial reward.  And although, I cannot speak for Trisha, I love it.  Trisha says,

The biggest impact I am making  is constantly being judged by statistics, numbers, other women, which contests I am running,  and how many people commented on something I had to say for the day.

I reply back to her with:

There is always going to be someone judging you, copying you, threatening you — in life,  in relationships and in business.  Just keep on keeping on.   Everything is always never the same.  You are you — doing what you do — how you do it best.    I like to focus on those who want to enjoy that journey with me — joyfully.

Thanks everyone, for being my everything.

Everything is a Work in Progress

Wednesday, May 6th, 2009 by Michelle

Photo by: madonnari_8

Everything is a Work in Progress

Photo by:  madonnari_8

Just when we think we’ve got it all sorted out, it changes.  Just when we think we’ve got everything just so, something comes along to shake it all up.

Its like that.  Relationships, business, finance, parenting — Life.  This thing called status quo is a myth.   There is always going to be something that challenges our “Everything’s OK” status into “let’s go back to the drawing board”.

My problem is, I really like to think I’ve got it all figured out.  Everything is going according to my perfect little plan.  And when my plan gets challenged, I have temper tantrums work fast and furious to get things back to just so as quickly as I can before someone notices I don’t have it all figured out after all.

My two biggest challenge areas are parenting and business.

  • My kids are constantly throwing wrenches into my parenting plan.  What?  This worked yesterday, why does it not work today?  Can we go back to yesterday where what I tried worked?  We were all a bit happier yesterday when my plan was working…
  • The web world is constantly changing.  And generally, there are always bugs, “fail whale’s” and apps that get hung up.  Why I chose the www world when I have issues with perfectionism is beyond me.  But I love it.  Well, I love when things go right, go according to my plan.  But when things go wrong - whoa boy.

So, my new mantra is “Everything is a Work in Progress“.  I am letting go of thinking that everything has to be just so.  ‘Cause it never is, not for long anyway.  Big or small, things happen.  Always.  To Everything.

And that is damn hard for this type-a, control freak-o mama.

Everything’s a Party!

Saturday, May 2nd, 2009 by Michelle

It is finally here.  After months of developing, everything is ready.  And we are having a party!

Welcome to our Twitter Site Warming Party!  One of the prizes is going to be given for leaving comments on our blog.  So, please leave a comment here and tell us what you think!  What do you like the most, what would you like to see more of?

While you here… Join some groups!

  • Connect with the PR world in the Connect with Mom Bloggers Group
  • Meet other Mom Bloggers in the Mom Bloggers Group
  • If you are an Expert or if you have questions for an expert take a look in this category
  • Start your own group!  As we have just launched, we are looking for moms just like you to add groups that interest you.

You can also…

  • Add your Mom Blog or Mom Business to our Mom Directory… it’s free!
  • Start you own blog here @EverythingMom.com.
  • Add photos to your profile so we can get to know you a bit better.
  • Add your Twitter Feed to your profile so we can see what you are up to.

Let’s have some fun!


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