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Self-Esteem is Everything

Tuesday, June 29th, 2010 by Michelle

Last week I was invited to attend a fantastic event called the G(irls) 20 Summit.  At the summit, the Dove Self-Esteem Fund in Canada unveiled the Dove Movement for Self-Esteem in an effort to encourage and support positive self-esteem within girls and women to they can feel more confident and reach their full personal potential.  I encourage you to join the movement, if you haven’t already.

I’ll be blogging all about my experience and sharing some conversations that came out of “One Girl Can:  A Discussion on Mentorship” that was held in conjunction with the G(irls) 20 Summit. In particular, I will share a video interview I did with Jess Weiner where we talked about self-esteem in mothers and how it affects parenting our children.

But first, I have to tell you that I was incredibly moved by the entire experience that day.

Here’s a story for you.

That day was my birthday.  I down played it, told very few and just made it be like every other day.  Because I did not want to draw attention to (or celebrate) me.

After experiencing that event, I saw that is just plain nuts.

We must celebrate ourselves, every day.

I tweeted out:

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And almost everyone responded a bounding YES!

Many of us ride that rollercoaster, some swoop higher or lower, but we all ride it.  I ride it.  Regularly.

So I am starting a movement - right here on EverythingMom.

mom-self-esteemI have started a group for moms to come together and share our highs and lows, talk about them, get real about them and manage them.  In our Mom Esteem group we can share tools and explore ideas that will bring us to strong place of modeling positive self-esteem for our children.

I am looking for a Life Coach who specializes in self-esteem to partner with EverythingMom in this pursuit.  This involves:

  • Coaching me (Michelle, the founder of EverythingMom) once a week for 12 weeks
  • I will blog about our coaching and my journey in hopes of sharing my insight with moms everywhere.  Each post will be linked back to our chosen Life Coach’s website.
  • Be available for potential coaching clients from our Mom Esteem Group, perhaps even setting up a group coaching program.

If you are a Life Coach and this sounds like all kinds of fun, then drop me an email to hi [at] everythingmom [dot] com expressing your interest and we can set up a sample session to see if we are a fit.

And moms, come join me in our Mom Esteem group, because really?  I don’t want to do this alone.

The Myth of Balancing Everything

Monday, January 18th, 2010 by Michelle

Balance is not Everything.  I’ve tried all the tricks in attempt to create it in hopes that it will fix everything.  Parts of me still tries to convince myself that balance is the answer, that balance is all I need.

But I don’t.  I need joy.  That’s what I discovered.  24 days in Mexico will do that to a girl.

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When I stopped trying to reach for that thing called balance, and started focusing on what would bring more joy to my life, balance just somehow started to happen.

Rewind to Pre-Mexico:

Everything was pretty messy.  I was in the throws of business negotiations, my marriage was struggling, my kids had piles of to-dos for both school and activities and I would not let anyone near my house for reasons I am sure you can imagine.  (I probably would not even recognize my friends if they rang my bell anyhow…)

We’re all busy, I get that.  But I was unhappily-busy.  I had created all sorts of avoidance techniques to fool me and everyone else that I had it all together.  But in reality, I was falling apart.  And who was I fooling, really?

My joy was lost somewhere between my to-list and my what-the-hell-am-I-doing-with-my-life list.  I didn’t know what I was working towards anymore.  I doubted everything.  My abilities, my dreams, my relationships - what did everything mean anymore?  Is this what I wanted to model for my kids?

Mexico is a very lovely place to have a breakdown.

For so long I avoided that pain, that doubt, that insecurity.  But when I finally gave myself permission to feel shitty, to wail at the ocean, to unload - that is when things started to feel better.  That is when I saw a glimmer of clarity.  That is when I was able to make decisions to shift from finding balance to finding joy.

It does not matter how many hours a week we work, how many piles of laundry we have or how many projects we have on the go.

What matters is that we are happy.  Not grin-and-bear-it happy, but that I’m-good-with-where-I’m-at happy.  That, our to-do list - no matter how long it is - includes those things that bring us joy.  I have forgotten to put these things on my list for a very long time.  Heck, I didn’t even know what those items were.

Sure, there are going to be tasks that we don’t particularly enjoy.  But if we are doing enough things that DO bring us joy - then it does not feel so overwhelming, so heavy.

So, I’ve been making changes everywhere.

One change that I am most excited about is we’ve got ourselves a new Managing Editor here at EverythingMom.com.  I’m sure you all know her very well and love her as much as I do.

Carrie Anne Badov has been a wonderful inspiration to me (and many others) since the dawn of Everything.  I am so thrilled to welcome her to our team.  Carrie Anne will now manage the process of EverythingMom as Managing Editor.  Please welcome Carrie Anne to the team!

Having Carrie Anne take on this role frees me up to be creative.  To build and develop the heart of EverythingMom — compelling content & tools to inspire, empower and support our community.

Having Carrie Anne frees me up to do things for me.  For my children, for my relationships.  For life.

I am looking forward to my to-do list in 2010.  Because it starts with joy.

Thanks for being part of Everything - I love you all.

xoxo
Michelle

Art of Children

Tuesday, October 6th, 2009 by Michelle

art-of-childrenThe art of parenting is complicated.  Thank goodness, when it comes to decorating kid’s rooms, the art of children is not.

CiCi Art Factory defines the art of children.  Vancouver artist, Liz Clay has created prints that capture the imagination of both moms and kids alike.  What were once bare walls now come alive with animals, adventures and wonder.

Swing on a tree, float away in a hot air balloon, or take a trip to the moon.  Any one of her prints will take you away on a magical adventure.

DISCOUNT OFFER:
Get 15% off all paper and canvas prints.  Email liz@ciciartfactory.com for a 15% discount on all print purchases.  From now until Oct. 31st.

GIVEAWAY!

Enter to win ONE of (2) sets of eight mini cards from CiCi Art Factory worth $20 each.  Simply leave a comment below and you are entered.

*CANADIAN residents only
* Contest closes October 31, 2009

No Fluff

Wednesday, September 2nd, 2009 by Michelle

In my last post, I talked about how less is more.  I just wanted to post this video as an example, IMO, how no fluff brings back the authenticity to what is really there.

Music is so much more at the core without the lights, action and — fluff.  Take a look at Kellie Pickler singing with no fluff.  I love the pure beauty of her voice, her presence and her essence.

Beautiful.

More is Less

Tuesday, September 1st, 2009 by Michelle

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Happy Mommy New Year!  September, for me and many moms I know, seems to be a time of year for planning and reflection.   For me, I get back to the gym, organize our family, sort out my office, plan the year for my business - I love September.

Every year, I look at how I can improve my game.   What’s working, what’s not?  Looking over the past year, I discovered that MORE is LESS.  The more I did, the less I gave.

Last year, well, it was a lot .  I took on too much.  I said yes, I jumped in.   I found myself spinning my wheels through my various commitments.  And it was hard.  Financially, emotionally and physically.

This year, LESS is MORE.  I am going to focus on doing less and giving more. In Everything.  Myself, my family, my relationships, my community, and my business.

More relevance, less fluff.

More conversations, less chat.

More clarity, less confusion.

More commitment, less distraction.

More you, less me.

How about you?  Is September a time of reflection for you?

Image by: Kelly Mallory

Bento Lunch Ideas for Kids

Sunday, August 23rd, 2009 by Michelle

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This time of year, you will find moms everywhere scouring the internet for inspiration on healthy lunch ideas.  This was me, last year.  The Laptop Lunch Kit inspired me to start with bento lunches.  If I were to buy one, this Japanese Bunny Bento Box has my name all over it.  (Or this one.)  I am too cheap, though.  I simply bought a container and some silicone baking cups to make my own bento lunch kit.  I would buy this book, however, I have found stacks of wonderful bento lunch ideas for kids online, that I am going to share with you!  You can also find stacks of other lunch ideas for kids in our Back to School section.

Bento Lunch Ideas for Kids

  1. Lunch In a Box
    http://lunchinabox.net/category/post-type/for-kids/

    Lunch in a Box was the first bento site that gave me wonderful ideas last year.

  2. KookyCulinary
    http://kookyculinary.com/category/bento/

    Love her ideas, she is so incredibly creative and uses different containers.

  3. O’Bento Lunch for Kids
    http://www.obentolunch4kidz.com/

    Looking through these bento sites, I actually get excited about make the kid’s lunches everyday.  The shapes she makes and the textures, what fun.  Make sure you check out her Bento Gallery.
  4. What’s for Lunch at Our House
    http://bentolunch.blogspot.com/

    For kids not at school yet, I love how she uses muffin tins at lunch time, great idea!

  5. Wendolonia
    http://wendolonia.com/blog/category/bentos/

    I love her blog because she fills her bentos with everyday food that even picky eaters will gobble up.

  6. Little Everyday Things
    http://littleeverydaythings.wordpress.com/2008/09/17/kindergarten-bento-lunches-2-3-4/

    Here are some creative bento lunch ideas geared toward those in kindergarten.  I know, though, that my little man in gr. 2 would love them all.

  7. Just Bento
    http://justbento.com/

    And who knew?  An entire community devoted to Everything Bento.  Fantastic!

  8. Jackie’s Bento Blog
    http://jackiw.blogspot.com/search/label/bento

    This site offers some ideas for those little ones who have a broad tastes.  Great ideas for those non-picky eaters.

My secret last year: Every morning, I would browse through a file folder of images that I have gathered that I knew would be a hit with the kids.  I would choose foods that we had available to throw into my make-shift bento box.  This year, I will just flip through my fave bento photos on my iPhone to save paper.  Here is what I have come up with…

1000’s of Bento Images

Hope this helps you with your school lunch challenges, the bento lunch works for me!  And don’t forget to check out our Back to School section for more great lunch ideas!

Introducing our new Mom Influencers

Saturday, May 30th, 2009 by Michelle

We have launched our first round of Mom Influencers!  You can find all 20 of them at the bottom of every page of our site and in our Mom Influencer Directory.

Why these 20 women?  I’ll just say that traffic, numbers, popularity and blog experience had nothing to do with it.  Our criteria was:  Do you want to make a difference?  Do you want to inspire moms to be better women?  Do you want to bring up, encourage and cheer each other on with positive, uplifting content and presence?  That is influential.

So go ahead and introduce yourself to these powerful women.  They are good gals to know.

Thank you to all of our Mom Influencers for making such a wonderful difference to the mom community.

xoxox
Michelle


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