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Dispelling Myths About Homeschooling

As a proud homeschooling mama, one of the things that always gets to me are the homeschooling myths or generalizations made about this growing method of education. I too once believed many of the myths when I first heard people mention that they knew someone who homeschools. I had the first thoughts of it being very strange and that these families must be different, and not in a good way.

homeschooling-mythsThree years into my homeschooling experiment, I find myself the subject of these generalizations and I find myself struggling to make people aware that these myths are anything but true.

Myth 1 - Homeschoolers are very religious and the basis of their homeschooling is founded on strong religious beliefs and values. Untrue. While there are many homeschool families that do so for religious reasons there are many many more that do so for educational reasons. Homeschoolers run the gamete on reasons for homeschooling and include things like better educational opportunities, allowing a more child centered focus on education, strengthening and honoring the family bond, and instilling a love of education. Homeschoolers come in all varieties but to generalize them all as religious zealots is incorrect.

Myth 2 - All homeschoolers are super smart genius-like kids. Untrue. Just as you will find a wide variety of intellects in a classroom, you will find the same variety in the homeschooling world. What is true is that those few genius like kids you occasionally see winning a national spelling bee or science fair is that they are often able to flourish while homeschooling in a way that would be difficult in a classroom of 20 or so other children who do not possess the same academic giftedness.

Myth 3 - Homeschoolers are lonely and have little social interaction with peers. If there is one myth that will get any homeschooling parent going—it’s this one. Incredibly untrue. To say so is a complete misunderstanding of homeschooling. Homeschoolers are not shut-ins. Most belong to homeschooling organizations and groups. They spend their days interacting with wide ranging groups of people- varied in age, socioeconomic status, culture, and geographic location. They are not bound to socialize merely with the same group of people located in a small geographic setting that all go to the same school. Many homeschooling organizations hold co-op classes, have frequent field trips, plan park days and play days, and network together in a very proactive and pro-social way. Many homeschooling parents can attest to the occasional feeling of being too busy at times. Additionally, most homeschool families participate in the same extracurricular activities as schooled children, be it softball or karate.

Myth 4 - Homeschooled children have limited social skills. Untrue. Building off myth 3, homeschooled children usually have excellent social skills because they are around a wide ranging group of people throughout the week. They deal with young and old and get a true education in socializing with various types of people. They have a better perspective on social interactions in real world applications.

Myth 5 - Homeschoolers do school at home by sitting in desks and writing in workbooks. Untrue. The term "homeschool" is a general catch all for any child who does not attend public or private school and instead is provided their education at home. There are many subsets of homeschoolers- unschoolers, eclectic homeschoolers, traditional curriculum based homeschoolers, and on and on. These subsets range widely from free learning by experience to full curriculum based “school at home”.

Understanding homeschooling begins with the understanding that not all homeschoolers are the same—or even similar for that matter. Generalizations are nothing more than rumors based on one person’s experience. Get to know a homeschooler and start debunking the myths on your own.

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Posted by Jenafer in education on March 13, 2010
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0 # TheGretchen 2010-03-15 15:23
Nicely done and well said!
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0 # Mae Mae 2010-04-25 00:47
The only myth I hadn't heard was #2. Most people I meet assume my kids are way behind, bordering on stupid. They "quiz" my kids to see if they know simple things.

Great article, though!
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0 # xwatchmanx 2011-12-25 14:37
Ugh... as someone who was homeschooled, I dealt with the same thing. I have an older friend who CONSTANTLY quizes me on things that he claims EVERYONE learns in elementary school (meanwhile, when I ask my mostly public-schooled college friends later, even most of them have no idea what he was talking about), and my lack of knowledge about them is his evidence that homeschooling is harmful. He was a child prodigy who went to an ivy league college at 16, so I guess he expects too much, but still. It's absolutely irritating. -_- Meanwhile, I used to have another acquaintance who would try to attribute every perceived personality flaw he saw in me to my homeschooling background. Id est, "you talk a lot thanks to the poor social skills you learned as a homeschooler." (Wow, I had no idea that not being a stuck-up zombie who refuses to say hi to people like so many kids today was a sign of poor social skills!) *Sigh*...
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0 # online diploma 2010-06-10 20:56
Very good information .... Thanks guy...
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0 # homeschooling 2010-06-13 18:32
Your posting is very good and theme base for which it is liking to every people. Thanks a lot!!!
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0 # msefcik 2010-08-18 08:20
Well done. We are heading into the realm of homeshcooling this fall as my lil' guy is 4. Your article has helped alleviate some last minute jitters. We live on the east coast of Canada and its seems our family has similar values, semi organic, natural-ish, country living, etc. It's nice to be able to connect with other like minded families. Look forward to reading more of your posts. Cheers.
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0 # Wendy V. 2010-08-27 13:14
...It's "gamut", not "gamete". Soooo different in meaning AND pronunciation. Heh.
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0 # High school diploma 2010-10-21 23:45
Nice piece of information :roll:
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0 # online diploma 2011-04-22 00:34
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0 # marandaHQ 2011-05-15 01:38
Great article! I am homeschooling my 6th grader this year, and we've definitely encountered some misinformed people. He's a combination ADHD/gifted learner and homeschooling has been wonderful for him. I feel like he's actually learning instead of just going through the motions of school.

Definitely will be sharing this, thank you!
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0 # Daniel Crane 2011-05-24 23:49
Enjoyed reading your post. Thank you for sharing. Looking forward to reading your blog in the future.
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