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Gender
Female
Birthday
14/04/1973
Hometown
Saint John, NB
About me
I live in Calgary, Alberta, Canada. I have 2 children. I'm married. I have a dayhome with 1 full time child (8 months old) and 7 part time children. I also started Childcare Calgary (a website advertising/marketing childcare providers in Calgary). I'm a very busy girl! I'm looking for friends who are as ambitious and motivated as me! :)
About my kid(s)
My son and daughter are models with Patti Falconer Agencies. I'm so glad my kids are so understanding and play well with kids of all ages. I have children at my house all the time; whether it's for my dayhome or just hanging out. My house is the spot for neighborhood hangouts.

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State / Province
Alberta
City / Town
Calgary
Country
Canada
Website
www.childcarecalgary.info
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I'm in NB visiting family. Will be back in Calgary on Aug 29.
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1 month ago
Scattered Mom Zoom, zoom! It's sunny weather and motorcycle time!
Jul 25
2 months ago
Scattered Mom and cookingmama are now friends
Jun 22
Jun 22
rockymountainmom added 29 new photos in Goodies From My Store album
Jun 14
rockymountainmom Adding a few new goodies to the website...while my family sleeps. Business as usual.
Jun 14
3 months ago
I like your ideas, Marilyn. I don't drink or party myself, and so tea and shopping, a movie, etc would be more my style.
May 09
Scattered Mom replied to the topic Re:Gardens in the forums.
We didn't wait until the flowers wilted, but rather snipped off the branch w/ the flowers, tied them in a bundle, and turned them upside down. Not sure if that's right but it worked for us.
May 09
Scattered Mom replied to the topic Re:Double Standard for Moms in the forums.
I thought it was funny when she was asked what Jon does for a job and she looked so puzzled before saying, "I don't know."
May 09
I told my husband that I don't care if anyone else acknowledges my birthday or other special days, but I DO care if HE does. He seemed to understand after that.
May 09
Talhere,

Merry120 was responding to my experience from working in an elementary school. In that community there were many low income, transient families. Many kids were not getting the nutrition they needed and the school took it upon themselves to teach the kids healthy eating. The reasoning behind the "no chips/pop/chocolate bars" request was that we had many kids bringing cans of Coke to school (in grade 1) on a daily basis and they could not concentrate in the afternoons.

This was a school policy. I had nothing to do with it's implementation. You may not agree with it, but it did help to keep the kids more focused in the afternoons. The treats were not demonized, just asked to be consumed at a different time.

No groups of people were demonized, either.

I'm sorry if you have found this threat preachy or judgmental-it was simply to facilitate discussion around Jamie Oliver's Food Revolution program. I felt that everyone handled themselves well because this is a sensitive topic. I've always felt strongly about what I will feed my child, and many times have been criticized for it because people can't understand why we WON'T eat junk food.

This thread was discussion, so opinions were asked for and welcomed-even those that might be hard to agree with.
May 09
Scattered Mom replied to the topic Re:What To Do When Another Kids Hurts Yours in the forums.
I think you handled it fine. Sometimes, it's really hard to figure out what to do. The mom probably felt defensive and may have thought you saw it as "on purpose", and that's why she kept pointing out it was an accident.
May 09
I'm kinda puzzled with your husband's no gift stance. What is his reasoning? It's not even the material object, but more the acknowledgment that you're special. We don't do a lot of gifts but Hubs will take me out for coffee,or we'll do something together. He may not be the kind of guy who brings me flowers, but he does surprise me now and then with something special.
May 09
Scattered Mom replied to the topic Re:School Mother's day gifts not fair... in the forums.
It is possible that one of the teachers didn't get the kids to make something. Maybe you could ask at the school, and point out your situation. Mother's/Father's Day is a landmine for school staff because while there are some kids happy to make the gifts, it often sets off others because they don't have a Mom or Dad, whether it's through death, they're in foster care, jail, etc.

Sorry that happened to you, though. Basically I think it should be done with all the primary grades or not at all, so your situation doesn't happen.
May 09
4 months ago
coachcarley created a new topic Win a Camera for Mother's Day in the forums.
Win a Kodak Camera & Photo Stationary from Mothercraft!

Mothercraft would LOVE to see your photos and get to know the mama behind the Facebook status updates! So in celebration of Mother’s Day and a mom’s love for photos, Mothercraft's Carley Knobloch is hosting a Mother’s Day giveaway sponsored by Minted.com. From Monday, April 26th to Saturday May 8th, post a photo on the Juicebox Fan Page as your "answer" to the question of the day,
and you'll be entered to win the Grand Prize : A fabulous minty-green Kodak EasyShare Digital Camera, as well as 25 Minted Photo Cards of your choice! You must be a fan of the Juicebox Facebook page to enter.

For details, visit: www.facebook.com/JuiceboxTips
Apr 27
Scattered Mom replied to the topic Re:Facebook wall post about special needs. in the forums.
I think if there was more education about special needs then kids would be more accepting...meaning if we talked about differences with kids from a young age, perhaps they'd be more accepting and not think things are "weird". I've always done that with Jake and explained why kids who are autistic act the way they do, so he understands.

It's too bad that it doesn't happen with other people-I know what you mean, I see it with kids too.
Apr 25
Scattered Mom replied to the topic Re:Yikes, it's almost MAY! in the forums.
Jake and I always go out for a special treat on the last day of school. It's sort of surreal that we are only going to do that 3 more times after this year and then he's in college.

Wow, that went fast.
Apr 25
Scattered Mom replied to the topic Re:Hot Topic: Feeding Kids Junk=Child Abuse? in the forums.
I had the same thing, Merry. I was going to write a blog post about it, probably for the next Food Revolution Friday. (so I won't give it away here). The grandma kept saying that the kid "wasn't a good eater" but when given the choice and seeing that the actual lunch was really good (as Jake scarfed it down), he chose it too.

What made that school so great was that for class parties, they allowed ONE parent to bring treats and the rest had to send things like fruit, veggies and dip, cheese and crackers, etc. They were given milk instead of pop. On Halloween the office handed out raisins and cheese strings. The kids still came with fruit roll ups and whatever other junk but at least the school could curb a lot of it and get the parents on board.
Apr 25

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Welcome to Everything Mom. Thanks for the friend invite :-) So glad to see you have joined some of our great groups.
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Blog Title: My Fabulous Life

TMI (Too Much Information)

July 16th, 2009

Really, how much information is TOO much information?  I have a new neighbor, I’ll call Bea.  Bea just moved into our lovely, mid-scale lake community in the city.  Bea is from a small farming community where she spent all of her life.  I can’t say I don’t like a lot of people or that I want to be a shut-in, but I really don’t like her.  And I want to be a shut-in. 

First of all, my brain is screaming “TMI! TMI!” every time I talk to her.  And she actively seeks me out too.  She’ll actually come into my back yard (through the fence) to find me to tell me some more unwanted information about her, her bf, her dog, her cat, her son, her mother-in-law…

The latest info I received from her was that her lips “down there” were all inflamed and red and itchy.  Do I need to know that?  Really?  Seriously? Last week’s episode was how hairy her bf was on his back, thighs and, yet again, “down there”. 

I feel like a shut-in in my own community.  No amount of words or covnersations gets her to stop talking or even to stop seeking me out.  I’m not a therapist and I’m not a doctor.  I can’t recommend creams or lotions for her nether-regions.  And, to be honest, I don’t really care that much about other women’s yeast infections.

Why? GOD? Why?

Yours in hiding,

Lisa :)

Taking care of an 8 month old is HARD Work!

July 14th, 2009

As I write this, my frustration mounts and is driven deeper into the shadows of the dark side.  It’s raining.  Again.  I’m so sick of the rain.  My kids can’t go out and they drive me insane when they’re inside all day.

I have a dayhome.  Up until now I’ve only taken kids before and after school.  My new little guy started at the first of this month.  He’s a charming, funny, cute little guy.  It’s just that he’s only 8 months old!  He needs constant attention.  When my kids were little, they were independent.  They were little independents when they came marching out of the womb.

Don’t get me wrong.  I love what I do.  I love kids.  I’m just so tired again.  I haven’t been this tired for years.  Am I getting old?  Is this just too much for me? 

Yours in Blogland,

Lisa :)

Customer Service - Srsly Ladies!!

July 12th, 2009

“Come on!  I ordered that necklace in April!!  Jeez!  When am I going to get it?? I’ll never buy anything from this woman again!!!”

How many times have you said this?  Well, as my personal experience goes, I ordered a necklace in April (paid for it and everything!!) and to date (July 12) I have still not received it.  I am so mad!  I haven’t even received an email back from her from my repeated requests at where it was and how long it will be.

You see, she’s a friend of mine from way back.  We’ve known each other for years.  However, does that give her the right to flake on me?  Srsly!

My one beef with working mothers/fathers/parents is that they are so unpredictable and at time, untrustworthy. 

If you’re going to start an online jewelry business and put on a 2 week 24 hr sale, then be ready for it.  Now, I’m not a total jerk.  I know life comes up and esp. if you’re a mother, I know all that.  I’ve experienced that!  But for craps sake!!  Have a backup plan if your kids get sick during this sale time.  Why let your customers suffer because you don’t have a plan?

Customer service.  Has everyone forgotten how it works?  In this time of economic downturn, don’t you think you want to hold onto the customers you have/had?  Treat them right and they’ll be yours forever (or until the sale ends)!

Yours in Blogland,

Lisa :)

Hello Everyone!

June 13th, 2009

I am so tired at the end of the day.  I can’t believe the days go by so fast lately!  But I can’t complain. :)

I have 2 perfect children: Reese who’s 8 years old and Hannah who’s 4 years old.  They are perfect.  I know everyone says that about their kids, but mine are just so….. perfect.

I have a Before and After School Care business during the day.  Not only do I have my own children, I have 6 other children who I see in the mornings and afternoons.  Then, in the evenings, I have been working my bum off starting a new business.  If you want to check it out: www.childcarecalgary.info

Childcare Calgary is a website I created (with the help of Vistaprint) to list all the dayhomes and childcare providers in my area.  These providers need to promote their businesses, and I do too.  I couldn’t find a long term and reprutable website that was updated every day.  So, I created one myself.  I’m proud to say I made 1 sale in the first 2 weeks.  I’ve been advertising like mad on this thing.

I find it so hard to work in the evenings. I’m so tired.  But this is what I want so I will work to achieve high success.  I can live with the bags under my eyes and coffee on my breath.  I always make time for my children because they’re the most important things in my life.

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